Urban Boss

The word "boss" now a days has several different conitations. According to Webster-Dictionary it is defined as "a person who exercises control and makes decisions." A lot of times that title has a negative association with it. But Urban Dictionary sees it as "incredibly awesome, miraculous and great." Example: "Dudeee did you see that chick? She is a boss (with the s drawn out)."

At some point when battling an illness you are faced with the transition of having others tell you what to do, to discovering you need to be the leader of your own condition. You can either be hesitant on telling a doctor, friend, or family member something or be in control and speak up without fear of judgement. By telling somebody what you need, or what you can not do does not make you bossy, yet it means you want to have control over your own life.

Mentally decide how you are going to view the word "boss". Is it going to be the negative or positive association?

Stay strong.

Quote for the day: "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."-Dr. Suess